“我们都太贪心却又不知道自己想要什么”

我那天看到惟在msn上面放的caption。。。

真的是说到我心里面去了。是不是我自己太贪心了呢？才会处处觉得不足。觉得钱赚得不够，觉得生活素质不都好，觉得男人爱我不够深，觉得问题一宗劫一宗，一波未平一波又起。。。

是不是应该要学着放下一些，人生才不会那么难过呢？

i shall let you know....

A Big Con Man

We were out for dinner yesterday at Bora Asmara. As chatting, M told us about a case that her friend almost got cheated by this big con man who addressed himself as "Datuk Kabi". Telling that he brought her friend to his house which is nice and big and her friend was greeted by the whole family. Towards the end of the story, she mentioned that this Datuk drove a BMW 6-series.

Listening at the name sounded familiar and the 6-series actually striked my memory. I had this dealer who got his customer to come over to my showroom to view a S-class AMG. As I didn't know that he is a "Datuk", I just addressed him as "Mr" the first time I called him. Calling him two times with promise of returning call but didn't, I left him a sms to check whether he is coming over. Luckily with that phone number, I cross-checked with M's friend and what a small world, it's the SAME!!!

With eight charges pending for hearing, he is still out cheating!! I was wondering how is he going to do this time. Driving a 6-series made the dealer trusted that he is financially capable to purchase the car. Without paying any single cent of deposit, he had submitted loan for approval. I wonder whether he is going to fraud the LOU and cheque from bank. The bank definitely won't approve the loan. Without paying any deposit, no one will register and release the half-a-million Ringgit car to him!!

I have warned my dealer to be extra cautious when he returns. However, I am also wondering what trick he is going to use. May be I should ask my dealer to pretend that they don't know about his charge and see what is he gonna do. :p :p

Anyway, google "Datuk Kabi" and you will find the news on this! With all these reports widely online and on news, he is so daring and still out fishing! I think the court should have him heard and charged before more people are victimised! Speed up please!!

我收了个干女儿！

那天终于去了一趟L&M的家。看了他们两刚出世两个月不到的女娃儿。之前看了照片已经觉得够可爱的了，现在抱一抱，不得了了，更可爱的了。好乖好乖的女娃儿。睡醒了，就摇一摇，也不哭也不闹。这样的小孩最惹人疼了。

我也好想要一个哦！！！

晚上跟CY去喝了两杯。忽然好想有自己的一个小孩。当然，要自己的也需要怀胎十月不止，还要找个爸爸才行啊！我现在又有婚姻恐惧症。不婚要孩子，我相信不是找不到一个男人，而是我自己的老爸会气死。 哇哈哈。。。但是我真的有这样的冲动。结婚何尝不是一种冲动呢？就像朋友的妈说的，就是当初的冲动，我想在还有一个你！感动吧！我也想试一试。一点点地动心，加上那一点点的冲动，我可能两年后就有一个小孩牙牙学语的叫妈妈。我想到有个小不点叫我妈妈，我现在想想，心都软了。

好好，在我付诸行动努力做人之前，我先打了个电话给L&M跟他们说我要他们的女儿做我的干女儿！哈哈哈。。。 我就这样收了个干女儿。

在接下来，就是找个人做我孩子的爸爸了！我傻了。。。但是我真的要去做了。我的新年新展望#1 - 努力“做人”！

Children Sponsorship Program

i was walking along santa monica 3rd street while this gal came up to me with friendly smile. i knew it's about some donation programme. i dont know why but i stopped to listen to her. it's an international children sponsorship program that she was trying to "sell" to me.

i have always been wanting to do this but as usual, never take initiative to look for the programme. since someone approached me, i was like "why not?" Or may be i was feeling lonely those few days in the States and didn't want others to feel left out and lonely like i was. whatever the actual reason is, I SPONSORED A KID!

i never choose any specific gender, no specific country, i let the programme choose for me. she told me that the child's profile will reach me in 10 days. i will get the kid's information when i am back in Malaysia. i am so excited!

came back for a week now and finally i received the letter from Children International. else, i will think that i have been conned! :p

My child's name is Leobanny Tineo Arias and lives in Dominican Republic. Frankly speaking, I dunno where exactly is the place! So sorry to all my geography teacher back in school. I scored high marks but i memorised it just for the exam. The exams are all over now so my brain deleted those unused info automatically! :p Anyway, Leobanny is 11 years old and he is already 5'1" tall and weigh only 78 lbs. gosh... i wish i could share a little of my fats with him. He loves to dance and he speaks only Spanish. So before i saved enough money to visit him, i should also saved some money to pick up Spanish too. :p i know i know, there will be translator but it will be so different if i could communicate using the same language, wont it.

sorry, i need to google bout the Dominican Republic now before i could think / dream whether i can afford to visit my boy. :)

It's affordable to sponsor a child. Visit http://www.children.org/ if you need more info on how to sponsor a child. :)

The Grand Canyon

4th day of our tour covers The Grand Canyon.

the journey was long. bout 2 and a 1/2 hours to reach the small town of Arizona before we transitted to another bus to travel another 45 minutes on the bumpy road to Grand Canyon.

on the way to the Canyon, we passed by the Hoover Dam built on the Colorado River. it's named after the ex-US President Herbert Hoover as he played an important role in building the Dam back then. It's located just at the border of Nevada and Arizona and these two states are in different time zone. standing one foot on each state, the one side on Nevada is one hour younger and the other is one hour older. kakaka...

we continued our journey and everyone continued to sleep in the coach. especially me and mei mei... :p

it worth everything when i saw the canyon.

it definitely look grandier than the picture i took!

me jumping on skywalk! fyi, i was screaming walking on the skywalk. :p

i dunno how to describe. it's just grand!! fantastic view. we wanted to take a helicopter ride but wind is blowing too strong. sigh... else, it will be another different experience. :)

More of LA

San took a day off to bring me around on my last day with her.

We took a 1 1/2 hours drive to camarillo factory outlet. Just to let me shop at Polo, Gap, DKNY and many more brands that are not available at Citadel. :p Four hours at the outlet and i only managed to go into the few brand i mentioned. i even skipped my lunch to have more time for shopping. hahaha... that's crazy? you won't say this if you're at the outlet k. No joke!!

We took the coastal way to Malibu. Stopped at Malibu wines for wine tasting. I felt a little cheated or may be i am just ignorant. USD12 for 4 types of different wines but the serving is not even half for each type! i rather spend that USD36 that three of us paid to buy two bottles and drink at home! may be i am just some cheapo...

continued on the coastal line, we passed by Malibu beach, Santa Monica and we went to Hooter's at Long Beach downtown! To those guys out there, the chicks are really exposed! i won't lie to you that they're all as pretty as me, but their boobs definitely bigger! :p

it's their halloween costume.. :)

i love the chicken wings at hooter's.

Of course we had beer too! not as much as what we had in Mexico though... :p

Mexico & San Diego

i joined the 2D1N Mexico and San Diego tour on my 5th day in LA.

US Navy Base taken from the cruise.

Coronado Bridge

As the navy base is just beside the bridge, there are some steel bars built-in at the side wall of the bridge for defence purpose. The steel bars will be released to prevent submarines from other countries entering into the navy base. Cool feature.

We headed direct to Mexico after the cruise. We skipped the border city of Mexico, Tijuana, known for drugs trafficking and prostitution and headed straight Ensenada.

Something interesting explained by the tour guide.

Apparently, the red colour zinc was the border last time. And I wonder, how the hell this wall gonna prevent those desperate Mexicans going into US? It's like 4' height and it is just those we see in Kampung houses! The American built the much higher one at the back which is the white cement wall. and there is a 2 mile empty land guarded by polices to stop those Mexican climbing over the wall and thinking that they could run 2 miles to the Land of Gold. :p

along Coastal Freeway 1, nice huh?

seagull @ La Bufadora

since i am travelling alone, i joined the tour guide and driver for lunch and dinner. and you know, they normally eat for free and i got it free too. :p they thought i am the trainee tour guide. wahahaha.... i saved alot of money.


We had Mexican food for dinner. It tasted so good. Yummy...







it tasted much better than it looks k. "Seven Sea Soup" with seven kinds of seafood in it and it tasted so fresh... thumbs up.

my main course - Mexican style grilled fish. This one tasted fastantic too. Two Thumbs up.

my Mexican coach driver and Chinese tour guide promised to bring me for Tequila after dinner. Since I had 3 Tequila while having dinner, we decided to just have a beer each before calling it the night. and next thing i know is to see a bucket of 10 coronas right in front of me. 10 bottles for three of us. Gosh... i think they might have different intention on me. There is something that they least expected, I AM A GOOD DRINKER!!! and three of us had like 21 bottles of beer and 6 Tequilas the whole night. I am not kidding you.

Francisco, me and Alan Guan

luckily the weather is cooling. else, i will have the heat up till my nose. We stroll along the sea side before heading back to hotel.



at the end of the night, all their plans, if there is any, was spoilt by GOOD DRINKER!
and Alan waking up this morning telling me that he got the worst hangover ever in his life. "No more beer, no more tequila!!" was exactly what he told Francisco.